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The Art of Oral Sex
by Anonymous
General Introduction
People have been using their mouths to stimulate each other sexually for about as long as
there have been people. How about kissing each other? Men have been kissing women on
their necks, ears, breasts, backs, thighs, and any where else they can think of that'll arouse
them sexually ever since they found out it works. It didn't take long for some enterprising man
to find out that kissing a woman's vulva worked, did it ever. The Latin word cunnilingus was
coined to describe licking the vulva.
Men were not alone in searching for ways to arouse the opposite sex. Some equally
enterprising woman found out that men liked for her to suck their penis, it worked just as
well. The Latin word fellatio was coined to describe sucking the penis.
Let's define and use the more common words to describe men and women's genitalia and the
various sexual acts. Pinus, cock; vulva, pussy; vagina, cunt; Coitus, fuck; cunnilingus, eating
pussy; fellatio, sucking cock, blowjob; performing cunnilingus or fellatio, giving head;
ejaculate, cum or shoot his load; orgasm, cum or climax; pubic hair, women muff or bush,
men bush.
Many men and women, today probably most, use some form of oral massage or kissing of the
sex organs as a normal part of foreplay to warm up their partners prior to fucking. They
probably don't think of that as "giving head," and I would agree that it's not. It's simply a part
of the foreplay used to prepare each other for fucking and hopefully achieving a sexual
climax.
Giving head, on the other hand, is used by one to bring the other to climax by use of,
primarily, the mouth and tongue. For those couples who develop the required skills and self
restraint, both can cum together using the 69 position. For me, although the sensations of a
man's cock thrusting in my cunt are great and I do love a good fuck, cuming together during
69 is more emotionally satisfying than cuming together by fucking.
You have to develop an understanding of the intimate feelings and emotions that occur while
you're performing oral sex and during a climax, and how to respond to those feelings. Giving
head is much more intimate than fucking and, if approached with the right attitude, can be
more emotionally satisfying. Both the man and woman need to become familiar with what the
other's emotional needs are, not just what it takes to make each other cum.
Only in the movies does a man grab a woman and say, take your clothes off, I want to fuck, or
vise-versa. You have to pick a time and place other than the kitchen where the baby has just
thrown a bowl of food all over your wife, although it might be a welcome distraction right
abought then. Giving head requires at least as much emotional preparation as fucking. For the
subject to even come up, one partner has to have built up the desire. That partner then has to
build up the desire in the other partner.
Getting the other to let you bring them to orgasm is generally the easiest. If you just want to
eat her pussy or she just wants to suck your cock, then all that's required is a willingness to
submit, and this is important, with the expectation of achieving orgasm. Getting the other to
bring you to orgasm requires the art of gentle persuasion. If you just want her to suck your
cock or she just wants' you to eat her pussy, a slightly different situation exists. A woman can
probably convince a man to eat her pussy without much effort. All that's generally required is
for him to be in a reasonably good mood. If he just wants her to suck his cock, and she wasn't
already thinking about sex, then he's going to have to get her in the proper mood first.
You'll find out that no matter who starts, the other will probably end up getting head also,
either that or you'll end up fucking. Given this inevitable result, it's nice if both of you can
build each other up first. Once you're both ready, he should give her head first, or you should
use 69. A man comes down from his climax too quickly, and takes too long to build back up
sufficiently to move right into doing a good job of eating pussy, unless he had that on his
mind from the beginning.
It's fairly easy for a man to learn to do a good job of eating a woman's pussy. If he's sensitive,
gentle and pays attention to what's in this book, she'll love it.
About the only problem the uninitiated man has is over the perceived bad smell and taste of a
woman's secretions. Many men, and women, think that the tastes and odors associated with a
woman's pussy are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and taste of the fresh
secretions from a clean healthy woman are usually beautiful and erotic to a man. This
question needs to be settled at the very beginning. A couple should take turns tasting and
smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's fresh and clean. Once a man tries it, the taste
and smell of a woman's sex will excite him and he'll look forward to it. When a man fingers a
woman and then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she'll
forget this problem and he can dive right in.
It's more difficult for a woman to become a good cock-sucker, but the rewards can be worth
the effort. There are three basic problems that confront a woman, the first two are, how much
of his cock should she take into her mouth, and what does she do with his cum. The answers
to the first two are, all of it, and swallow it. The third problem is, how does she get all of that
cock in her mouth. The answer to the third is in the following lessons.
As yo u'll see later, the shaft of a man's cock isn't overly sensitive to touch on any particular
spot, but it does respond to pressure, and there are a lot of nerve endings when you include all
of it. Don't forget that much of the pleasure we derive from sex is in the mind, it's
psychological, emotional. When a man feels a woman's warm soft mouth and tongue giving
his cock a workout, feels her trying to suck his balls out through it, sees her look up at him as
her lips slide down over it until her face is buried in his bush, the overall feeling is hard to
describe. When you take all of this into account, she should take all of his cock into her mouth
and throat at appropriate times while she's giving head.
It's not a big deal with most men if a women doesn't want to swallow his cum, he just doesn't
want her to take his cock out of her mouth until he's finished cuming. When he's fucking you,
you feel that you're drawing him into yourself when you cum, part of his sexual makeup is a
mirror image of yours, he feels that he's being drawn into you when he cums. He needs for
you to keep his cock in your mouth, continuing to increase the intensity of your fellatio, until
he cums and his climax lets down. It's a real letdown for him if you take his cock out of your
warm soft mouth just as he's reaching the climax that you've both worked so hard for and jack
him off into a wet towel.
I said that the rewards can be worth the effort. Lying there with a man's throbbing cock buried
deep in your throat and your face buried in his bush can feel almost as good as having it in
your cunt, and a lot more intimate. Feeling a man cum in her mouth while she carries him
through the end of his orgasm and then swallowing it after he's finished becomes a sensual
thing for a woman, part of her natural desire to participate in his orgasm to the fullest extent,
drawing his love juices into her as he climaxes. You'll find out that taking his cum into your
mouth and swallowing it can be an intensely intimate act for both, it can be a significant
symbolic gesture of love.
Good sex isn't just the pleasure of reaching a climax, it's when you share each other's climax,
it's when a woman's efforts to bring her man to climax excite her to the point where she could
almost cum, sometimes his climax drives her over the top. It's the same for the man. When a
man is passionately eating out a woman's pussy, he's got a hard-on that won't quit. He wants
to bury his face in her muff and thrust his tongue into her cunt, join with her body. It's not
unusual for a man to get so worked up emotionally while he's eating a woman's pussy that he
cums while he's doing it, and none of his sex organs are involved except his mind.
Sex should not be all oral. When the opportunity presents itself, like when you're passionately
eating her out, she's starting on her second orgasm and is really hot, you've got a hard-on that
just won't quit and she's lying at the edge of the bed with you between her legs. You look
down and see that if you just got up on your knees your cock would find itself in her cunt, go
ahead and shove it in there and give each other a good fuck. Some women say that they feel
lonesome when they're receiving head, they want to be held and kissed. This is why moving
from eating her pussy smoothly into fucking her can be very satisfying, it's also a good reason
for 69.
This book is in two parts, the first, how to eat pussy, the second, how to suck cock. A final
section gives an example of how to blend the best of both sexual worlds, oral and coitus. I
hope you learn your lessons well and have many years of pleasure putting what you learn into
practice.
The Art of Cunnilingus
or
How to Eat Pussy
Introduction
This section is for men who want learn how to properly eat a woman's pussy, or who've heard
that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who want to get
their man to eat them period, improvement in performance can come later.
I am not an expert. I am simply a woman who knows what she likes, and has had all too many
experiences with men who didn't seem to have the vaguest idea what they were doing
between her legs.
Eating a woman's pussy is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her
feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy. Many women prefer it to
intercourse, and for most, it's the easiest way to cum with a man. You may have the littlest
cock on the planet, but if you give great head, you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes,
it's that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days so you might as well get to
know what you're doing. Studies show that 90 percent of married couples under 25 give head
and for couples over 50, at least 55 percent of the men are eating pussy, with 95 percent of the
men and 82 percent of the women enjoying it.
Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's genitalia. Guys that
can't wait to get their cock into one are often reluctant to put their face "down there." For
every guy who says he loves to eat pussy, there's another one who's squeamish. Women know
this, and it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy the experience.
This is for you gals. Before you can get him to eat pussy for the first time, you need to get him
worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don't do
anything to make him cum yet. He's got a sex switch in his brain that turns on when he sees a
woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he cums, this is why who does what
first can be very important in the beginning, less so as the two of you mature. Fortunately, it
won't take much to get him to eat you the first time, just undress and ask him to, let him look
at your pussy for a while, show him your clit and let him play with it, promise him a good
fuck afterwards or a blowjob if you've read the second section, if he seems the least bit
interested straddle his head and rub your bush over his face.
What's Down There?
This is for you guys. Most men don't really know what they've been sticking their cock into.
Many women also don't appreciate what they have, and can't understand why a man would
think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it.
Why would a man like to eat pussy? Most men I know who really love women and want
make having sex with them a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, also like to eat pussy.
They don't want to just eat her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up
for a fuck that neither will forget, or maybe get a good blowjob if that's what she wants to do.
I think that there are two basic reasons. First, many men want to give their woman the most
sexual satisfaction they can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the
more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder their cocks get until sometimes
they cum just from eating her. The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell
play in sex. Why do people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place
during a kiss. The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body
and are active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on her ears, kiss
and suck on her nipples, kiss her navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of her
body, her pussy. The tastes and odors of the fresh secretions from a clean healthy woman's
pussy are also erotic to many men. Put this all together and your mouth in her pussy is where
it's at guys.
Now that you've got your woman out of the shower, on the bed, and fairly well warmed up (or
she's got you there), stop and look at what you see. Leave the lights on, or get a flashlight or
something, so that you can examine her carefully. Take a good look at what's between her
legs. Beautiful, isn't it? There's nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I
know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are
tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet
you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz.
The first thing you see is her muff. It should be the same color as the rest of her hair but who
knows these days. It has a slightly different texture than the hair on her head and can cover a
large or small area but usually just up over the mons area, that fleshy mound over her pelvic
bone, and down each side of her pussy to its lower end. It usually does not spread out to her
thighs and has sparse growth partially onto the outer lips.
Don't worry, looking at it won't make you go blind. Nestled in the midst of her muff are the
outer, or major, lips of her pussy (they are vertical on all women). They are not overly
sensitive to touch on the outside (but it's a good place to start), about the same as the shaft of
your cock. They extend from the upper part of the hood that covers her clit to more or less the
bottom of her pussy. They're thick and luscious in the middle and thin out at each end
blending into her body. Some are almost closed while others are open to varying extents,
allowing the inner pleasures to peep through. They don't generally come together completely
at the top, exposing the upper cone of the clitoral hood, and less so at the bottom, giving you a
glimpse of the bottom of the vaginal entrance where the lower parts of the inner lips surround
it.
Underneath the outer lips are the inner, or minor, lips. These are much thinner, more sensitive
and fun to play with. At the top they form the cone-shaped hood that protects the sensitive
clit, closing in under the clit and then coming back out to continue down to the bottom of the
vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer lips, especially near the bottom.
Between the underside of the clit and the bottom of the vaginal opening lies the vestibule,
your new playground. Although the clit's hood is a part of the inner lips, they appear to only
cover the vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule. Excluding the obvious
first place role of the clit, it's the vestibule and the entrance to the vagina where a lot of the
action takes place.
I've saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit, accent on the first syllable. Most of you know it,
but for those who don't, it's THE woman's sex organ, period. It may feel great to be fucked
vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn't right there, on the clit, you're ignoring the
place that's going to make her cum, and presumably that's why you're reading this, right? It's
right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. This is where it's at
boys, and don't forget it. Almost any licking and sucking of the labia or vaginal entrance are
going to feel just dandy; just remember that's pleasurable, teasing, not the main event. I can't
tell you how many guys have thrust their tongues up my cunt thinking that that was going to
make me cum. They were wrong. Of course, with a little manual stimulation . . . but I'm
getting ahead of myself.
Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clit. Some
women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You
may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the
goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be fine after she's very
excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted attack
on their clit, but once they're ready, that's where you want to devote your attention.
Back off for now, rest your head on her thigh and just admire the view. Learn to appreciate
your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Describe what you see, in
poets' words if you can, but in any way you can as long as it's with love and admiration.
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